he’d be a saint, but instead he chose to be honest. Waiting to see the outcome of a handful of dates with one guy or girl while still letting your “backups” know your interested, is not “sloppy seconds”; it’s common courtesy, respectful and being authentic.I think it shows a tremendous amount about his character that he’s focusing on one woman instead of trying to juggle 10… We women have been sold the lie for so long that we have no power in relationships - and Evan turns that lie around and gives you your power back.He not only gives you your power back, he shows you exactly how to use it - and what's even MORE important, how NOT to use it.I find this man incredibly shallow and disrespectful. Will he also do this to Lorraine (have a gal on the sidelines so to speak) in case Lorraine doesn’t work out to HIS expectations? With the comment he made “if things don’t work out, I will call you” would have most women thinking what a jerk!Conveniently, Lorraine was available-wonder how much respect for her is going on?
So, if that’s the case, would you want each man to conclude that because of his rejection: Women are fickle and shallow. -Amy How can you trust or respect the guy who was already dating another gal while corresponding with Lorraine?Being a little hard to get certainly couldn’t hurt – instead, Lorraine appeared desperate?Was this guy leading her on and then dropped the bombshell that he was dating someone? -Kristy As you know, reasonable people can agree to disagree.This is long, so make sure you have 5 minutes to yourself. Maybe you’ve been emailing and talking on the phone every night for a week.Maybe you had an effortless first date that lasted until 2am.You can overrreact to each seemingly personal slight, or you can deal with it in a graceful and detached manner like Lorraine. I couldn’t disagree with Kristy more as far as her logic for not giving the guy Lorraine went on a date with a 2nd chance.