I’d like to help you out before that next big dinner or coffee by offering some creative first date questions you can use if you need to stir up conversation.
What’s the most embarrassing thing that happened to you in elementary school? If your house was on fire, what’s the first thing you’d grab to save?
Whether you’re an old hand at online communication or a complete newcomer to the world of virtual connections, there are some questions worth bearing in mind when you’re trying to figure out if a match is worth getting to know The aim of online communication is simply to get to know enough about your match to reassure you that they’re genuine and interested to see if they’re someone you’d like to know better.
You don’t need to know someone’s entire back story before you meet them.
No worries; you don’t need to remember all of them! You can also use one of these questions in your email correspondence. If your match declines, makes excuses, or is difficult to pin down, even for an hour, don’t pressure them.Just ask them to let you know when they’re free, leaving the ball in their court to organise something if they’re interested.They might have put something in there because they think it sounds impressive but on further questioning it has no substance.As part of a general conversation about profiles you could ask them what it was about yours that made them want to contact you. When you were little, what did you dream of being when you grew up?