Can the hot girls who seem to go after those muscular and gangster type guys ever go out for a guy like me?
But after a few dates, you begin to realize he’s not like the other guys you’ve dated.
Now I am a nerdy type, I spend most of my time on my computer or playing some video games.
I don't have the six pack body or the skinny type, but I'm still a tad big.
To succeed with him, show him you aren’t one of those people and that he’s awesome the way he is. It has none of the cheesiness of Star Trek and everything it lacked: sex, violence, drama, very strong women, and seriously hot guys. In many ways, relating to a nerdy guy isn’t all that different from relating to a non-nerd; he just has different toys.
Love him for who he is, and he will be a loyal partner.
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A common misconception in the dating world is that the guy always has to approach the girl to make the first move.
Source: Shutter Stock Once you guys start talking, remember to take things slowly.
I know that, as a shy girl, I'm much more likely to open up and speak my mind when I'm not face-to-face with someone.
He might feel more comfortable talking to you through a computer screen and if so, this will allow you to get to know him and become friendly with him.
It's even more frustrating when people assume your shyness means that you're not interested or just being mean.
Don't assume that just because he's being quiet and awkward and not flirting with you means that he doesn't like you. Know that if you do want to try to date him, it's going to be a little difficult to read him sometimes... Source: Shutter Stock Okay, now for how to date him.