Such families are really difficult to interact with as they are in a transient state and even do not know how they should treat.The boys and girls in such families are the biggest victims in many situations especially for having serious relationships, dating, falling in love, and getting married.For this category, ‘Khasteegari’ is just a formal request for marriage which is usually from the guy’s family.Conversely, for those religious families, ‘Khstegari’ is a formal request for starting a relationship.In this period the couple either falls in love with each other and decides to get married or understands they cannot get along with each other and break up.The second category are those families we called ‘open-minded’ or ‘modern’ families.Marriage is one of the most important issues that happens for most of the people in the world and probably is the most important one!Based on differences in cultures, histories, religions, societies and so on, the ways people start dating, fall in love, and marry differ in the countries all over the world.
These customs are almost the same for both traditional and modern families with one big difference.
If the couple comes from a traditional families, the ceremony will be held in a place that men and women are separated.
In the other words, all men go to one place and at the same night all women go to another place and men and women celebrate the marriage ceremony separately, But for the modern families these customs are normal and all people go to one place to celebrate the marriage ceremony.
The fist category are ‘religions’ families who believed that their sons or daughters should not have any relationships before marriage.
Sometimes this category also is refereed to as ‘traditional’ family.