After being spoiled by the high end clubs, trawling through regular bars and pubs and clubs for the one diamond in the rough is no fun…so you don’t do it. It was cool and all, but 90% of it happened after 3am, with a girl who I knew was not going to be a girl that I’d like to date, which kind of took the edge off the experience.Of course, when it comes to happiness, I was a million times happier than back in the day when I had no girls.I did this for a few months, but couldn’t do it forever.I took some time to catch up on my lost youth, that 16-21 age when everyone else was getting laid but I wasn’t.With a bit of game, results are pretty much guaranteed.The problem was that I’d met a lot of characters over the years who had unlimited access to women, they were guys like: So I realised that a lifestyle that feeds you girls and makes it too easy is not the way.We got to know every member of staff from the door guy to the toilet guy to the barmen to the waiters.
I’m only in the UK 1 month per year, and the other 11, I’m wherever I want in the world.Both dumped me, because inside I still had a lot of insecurities and very little relationship experience. keep in mind the things that she was initially attracted to, and make sure you never lose those qualities or stop showing them! In the end they didn’t work out, but at least this time I wasn’t getting dumped anymore. The girls I was getting with were much more attractive and a lot of fun, but they often smoked, drank a lot, and a good percentage did cocaine.This, in a nutshell, shows the problem of living in London – The most beautiful girls are only consistently to be found in the high-end clubs, BUT they are usually nothing like girlfriend material.I’d had my first relationship, with the first girl I kissed, and that lasted 2 1/2 years, then nothing for a few years.Right after moving to London at age 25 I’d had two girlfriends for about a month each. Don’t force a relationship with a completely incompatible girl to work. These first relationships were just as nice and exciting as it was going to the clubs for the first time. Next I started going to more high-end nightclubs and infiltrating the scene more and more.The best thing to do is to get your wonderful girl – beautiful…and all the rest, and run away with her, out of the scene and live a normal quite life.