It would have been easy to burnish the truth, but she presented herself honestly, from her age (57) and hobbies ("dancing, rock collecting") to her financial status ("self sufficient").
The picture — outdoor photo, big smile — was real, and recent.
Then she saw this guy, the one with a mysterious profile name — darkandsugarclue.She resolved to be pickier, only contacting men who were closely matched — 90 percent or more, as determined by the algorithm pulling the strings behind her online search. Back in college, she'd studied computer science and psychology, and she considered herself pretty tech-savvy.She had a website for her business, was on Facebook, carried a smartphone. Later, when she puzzled over their relationship, she'd remember this. That had been a fateful move; it made everything easier for him. After the funeral, a grief counselor told her to make no sudden changes in her life for at least a year, and she followed that advice. Two sharp blows that had left her alone in her late 50s. His cancer took him swiftly, before she had time to process what was happening.But nothing clicked — either they weren't her type or they weren't exactly who they said they were.