He gets into fights, throws things and refuses to listen to anyone.
I know what it’s like to want to try and fix this broken person, but it’s not worth your patience and sanity. The Alcoholic is very different from the Jekyll-and-Hyde Drunk.He is on his best behavior, but because past friends and lovers have told him his drinking is sometimes problematic, he keeps it to a minimum around you.Once he gets comfortable, though, he allows himself to get drunk because he just wants to have fun like everyone else. Suddenly, this guy is spewing the most hateful, nastiest things you’ve ever heard. He becomes like a petulant child who you feel the need to babysit, and his behaviors become dangerous and erratic.You knew it was wrong and you didn’t want to do it, but your heart just couldn’t help it. Once this guy gets you hooked, you think you're the right person for him, and he and his ex were wrong for each other. He probably cheats on tests, steals other people’s ideas and does whatever he needs to to get ahead at work. This guy constantly makes you feel bad about everything: what you’re wearing, how much makeup you have on, how you do your hair, what you eat, etc.You were both attracted to each other by the universe and it was meant to be. He is usually very smart and calculating; a smooth talker who gets what he wants by charming his way out of any sort of discipline. He belittles your intelligence and questions every idea you have.or he could play Call of Duty on the couch while drinking a beer. He’s not even willing to put in enough effort to put on clothes other than mesh shorts and a dirty tee shirt, so what makes you think he’s going to put in the effort to keep your relationship strong. He’s not going to change – and he’s not worth your time.