If you respond to “Hey”, don’t be surprised your relationship is nothing more than “Hey” level. When I joined a few years ago, it was for one girl: Shadoe987. So lovely, so innocent, so eccentric in her spelling choices.Be literate Ironic coming from me, since I don’t proof read or edit my blog.But believe it or not I actually re-read my messages many times, checking for spelling and grammatical errors.Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it.The first thing you read in the post was a bold face lie.
So now I’m going to share with you how I craft my messages that I send on online dating.
Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.
Mentioning shared interest helps create the buy in, she needs to relate to you. I once dressed up as Luke Skywalker for 6 months straight, prior to the release of the Star Wars: Episode III Revenge of the Sith!
It should be short, concise and have questions, so she can have the opportunity to respond.
Don’t try and be funny I’ve seen SO MANY messages from my female friends of guys trying to be sarcastic or use humor in their messages, but since their idiot cavemen it comes off as rude, cynical or awkward.