She's enjoys writing music, poetry and fiction and hopes to have her first novel out soon. If you love your best friend far more than her ex, do the right thing and find another guy. She's a tech geek at heart, but loves telling it like it is when it comes to love, beauty and style. Otherwise, she’s always going to wonder if you’re secretly trying to steal her boyfriends. Clear guidelines on when to bother with a best friend’s ex.Pat Benatar alerted the nation of the state of love when she compared it to the heavy artillery and dirty bombs one faces in a war.Take solace in the fact that there's no conceivable way it can not be awkward. Though this might not solve everything, it's a good first step." Objectively, it's a weird thing to go after someone who definitely had sex with your best friend. Think of the conversation as a Power Point presentation.Walk them through your feelings, explain your intentions, and really try to convey that you're not just looking for sex and legitimately can fall in love. tread very, very lightly and acknowledge that what you're doing is a huge social faux pas. As long as you respect her wishes, you won’t lose her as a friend and you’ll know for sure whether to date the ex or not.
You’ve probably had a thing for the guy while he was with your best friend. Never, under any circumstances, try to date the ex right after they broke up. Use your best judgment and hopefully you’ll get the friend and the guy.I’m not saying go ahead and jump your friend’s ex right now. It all comes down to how your friend feels about it. Remember, it’s a tricky situation and if you don’t do your homework, you could lose your best friend. If it’s been a few years and your bestie has definitely moved on, give it a go. You were a good friend and kept your feelings to yourself for long enough. But do you think the idea of my body being metaphorically blown to smithereens stopped me from dating not one, but two (yeah...) of my best friend's ex-girlfriends?do when pursuing the exes of their best friends, or less-than-best friends, even. Anytime it’s a messy breakup, you shouldn’t date your best friend’s ex.